De-Clutter As Foreplay

                

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What if less clutter would make your partner more interested in sex? Would that be enough motivation to get you to de-clutter your space? You have to find reasons that motivate you enough to catapult you into action. Sex is usually a pretty good motivator. We all have different stuff that drives us, maybe sex is the driver you need to dig in and clean up that mess!

Think about it, how can you have sex on that table with all those piles..? Okay, maybe you could brush the stuff onto the floor but that might not be too enticing to someone when they think that they are going to have to deal with it after. It's not too relaxing to have messes all around when you are trying to relax and enjoy some intimacy with your partner. Many enjoyable otherwise relaxing activities are compromised if you have to deal with a cluttered, disorganized living space. Clean it up and get organized.

Look around and think about parts of your house that might affect your sex life. Maybe you could use that as a starting point to figure out where you want to start your de-cluttering project. Look at your bedroom, maybe there are parts that could use some serious clean-up or maybe it just needs some general organization to make sex more desirable. Perhaps there is a way you could organize it so that you can add some romantic amenities, like candles, incense or essential oils. You might have a nightstand that has so much junk on it that there is no room for any of those nice romantic things or sex enhancement toys that might spice things up between you and your partner. Be creative in cleaning up the clutter in relation to spicing up your sex life. Think about spaces that might be interesting to have sex if there was the space to do so.

Remember although you tolerate the piles, the junk and the disorganization, it might drain you mentally to where you aren't in the mood for intimacy. Maybe your partner is really turned off by it and would really be sexually motivated and encouraged if the environment were nice, clean and organized. You might not know until you give it a try, so what have you got to lose? I can almost guarantee that the de-cluttering certainly won't make for less sex so go get 'em and see what you can get out of it!

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